I am having an issue with my relationship. I and my significant other have been having issues with communication and intimacy. I feel unattractive to him, and I have expressed that due to the lack of affection and attention that this is why I feel this way. Of course, when I express this, he brings up an issue he might have had with me that he never talked to me about. This makes me feel that he is attempting to manipulate the situation to his advantage, and is not understanding of my feelings. I also notice that we always discuss his issues, and if I do not offer help to him he feels that I do not care about the situation, but when I need assistance, he is not able to offer me anything. I feel at this point the relationship is one sided and I am not sure if I am seeing clearer now because we are no longer in the honeymoon stage and he has always been this way, or that maybe he has fallen upon hard times and is just going through something. But I am seeing that he always has an issue, and I do not feel that I am emotionally equipped to deal with what he has going on. Does anyone have any idea what I can do so that we can get back to where we were?