I always thought of being selfish as a negative term, but lately my close friends and family have been telling me I need to start being selfish and thinking about myself. I am the type of person who has a problem saying no to friends/family when they need favors for instance. So instead of me saying no because I would rather spend that time reading a book or watching I movie, I agree. I think the main reason I do this is because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but at the end of the day I am the one with little time on my hands to do the things I actually want to do. I'm not sure if anyone struggles with this, but if you do I'd love some advice. Thanks!